Different strokes

Mika asked me the other night if I treated my kids different as a boy and a girl. He asked with the admission his daughter has him wrapped around his finger and his mouth can't produce the word 'No' in her presence. I told him I didn't treat them differently and Jenna backed me up on this. Then I started noticing in all the pictures of she and I, she was in my lap being held...even when she was taking a nap. Hmmm...