A real update

My little sister told me last night, she gets depressed everyday when she checks the blog and there are no new updates. So I'll appease her and update everything going on in the Sullivan world :)

*Aunt Holly came to Fayetteville to visit the week before Thanksgiving. She hadn't seen Noah since this summer and of course pictures and stories do not do justice to how big Noah's gotten. We had a good time highlighted by taking Noah to Dickson St. for the Lighting of the Ozarks Parade. Noah sat on my shoulders and pointed at all of the floats going by. He especially liked the humane society as they went by with about 100 doggies. He yelled "Da Da Da Da" the whole time (I would have spelled it "Do Do" but I didn't know how to make the 'o' soft). When we went to the square to see the lights he was distracted by that darned moon that seems to follow him wherever he goes. When we go outside at nighttime the first thing he does is look for the moon. If he can't find it he puts his arms up and says 'Aaaaaaaaa' Translation-where's the big shiny thing in the sky?

*Magga came in on the tail end of Holly's trip and then stayed a couple of extra days. She kept Noah home Monday and Tuesday and played with him. She went to bed each night before 9 so I think he wore her out. While she was here we had our first 'leave the restaurant' moment. On Monday night we saw a kid Noah's size sitting in a booster seat instead of a high chair. So on Tuesday night I had the brilliant idea to put him in a booster seat at AQ Chicken. Things started well enough but soon they progressed to a kid that wouldn't sit down at all. It didn't help that our waiter was slower than molasses in January. We then tried to migrate from the booster seat to a high chair. Well I guess the small taste of freedom was more than he could handle and a fit erupted. Then it continued. So I took him for a walk. When he stopped the fit we came back. He went into the chair fine but then we found out the fit didn't stop, it was merely delayed. Imagine a parade of elephants with small monkeys on their backs played the cymbals and you'd have had about the same spectacle. So I took Noah outside while Jenna and Magga got our food changed to To Go and we went home. The rest of her trip went great though.

*We went to Texarkana for Thanksgiving. Noah's great-aunt and uncle Ed and Judy came up from Austin with their son Jason (I'd try to figure out what cousin they are but the whole -once removed stuff confuses me). Great-aunt Margaret came from Dallas. Uncle Jared and soon-to-be Aunt Shantel came from Little Rock, and Noah's great-great-aunt came from Malvern. We had a really nice time with Noah wanting to play outside constantly despite the 40 degree rainy weather. We were nervous about his sleeping because with so many people there, his crib had to be in the room with us. The worry was unfounded though, because if anything he slept later because of us. I'd hear him wake up, talk to us a bit, and then lay back down and go back to sleep. I'd be remiss if I didn't mention Arkansas beating LSU on Friday. With the exception of the game lasting 5+ hours it was so much fun. Noah slept for most of it but about the fourth quarter I don't think Sleeping Beauty could have ignored our yelling. We went home on Sat which was perfect since we had a full day at home before returning to the grind.

*We were kind of Bah-Humbuggish since we didn't get our tree up until this past weekend and we still don't have a single gift under the tree. We're getting into the spirit though. We're trying to figure out when we're going to take Noah to see Santa.

*We threw a stock-the-party for our friends Greg and Jenny last Saturday night where Stabbing Goat had our first draft beer available to the public. I think it was a hit since only 6 of the Bud Lights were consumed before it floated. Greg's bachelor party was after the party so the guys departed and that's all I have to say about that.

*Sunday morning found the Sullivan family with a special honor. We were asked last week if we would light the Advent Wreath in the Sunday service at church. Noah wouldn't sit down before the service started so I stood with him on the side until we got to go to the altar. He did much better than at his baptism. Instead of trying to get down he turned to his Granda and Pops on the 2nd pew and waved while squealing. It was awfully cute. He ruined it at lunch though when we almost walked out of our 2nd restaurant.

I'll post more often, especially leading up to the holidays and Jenna's next surgery.

Who's that bearded man?

Every fall/winter I grow a beard. It usually lasts 2-3 weeks before Jenna makes me shave it to a goatee and that typically lasts through January. I think I use the beard as an age barometer on myself. Every year I look in the mirror in horror as the amount of grey hair in my beard seems to double each year.
I started growing the beard last week. The first several days are just normal scruffy looking Chad. The next few days are the hardest because you have to trim it off the neck and then you go through that whole Don Johnson stage that I hate. Then finally you get to the itchy phase and you have a beard. This happened on Tuesday.
At the same time I was growing the beard, Noah decided to cut about 4 molars at once. Over the weekend and the first several days of this week he has wanted nothing to do with me to the point where he actually pushes me away. We assumed it was because I had a big boys weekend and his Momma has been holding him a lot while he hasn't felt good.
Yesterday a co-worker asked me how Noah was adapting to the beard. She said when her husband grew a beard her kids wanted nothing to do with him. I also remember my buddy Brown saying he always hated his Dad growing a beard when he was young. I asked Jenna last night if she thought this may be Noah's new Daddy-avoidance and she had no opinion to offer.
This morning I went to wake Noah up and get him dressed. This has always been my duty so this isn't a schedule breaker or anything. Noah refused to come to me. He shook his head 'No.' He pushed his back against the back of his crib and would not let me pick him up. Jenna came and teased me that I'd have to shave.
So I did. I went to the bathroom and shaved while Jenna got him dressed. The verdict...when I picked him up he came easily and said "DaDaDaddy" with a squeal. I don't know if he didn't recognize me or he just didn't like the beard but it was obvious that was the problem.

Oh, great coordinators

Hi. Here is a picture of my dear friends or "Mother Hens" who coordinated the Race for the Cure efforts for my team. They, too, had helpers and it was all such a success. I wanted all the readers of this site to be able to put a face with the name. Diane Green is the one on the left and Molly Beth Malcolm is the one on the right. They have both been friends of my mother's for a very long time. Diane is our back door neighbor in Texarkana and she and mom were both teachers. Mom and Molly Beth also met while teaching years ago and Rendi, Molly Beth's daughter, was in mom's class. Anywho...both have seen me through the good and the bad and I am so grateful for their continual support through the years. I am one lucky lady, but I guess that is only due to be born to another lucky lady with such dear friends. Thanks Mom and Thanks Di and Molly Beth!

The great orgnanizers

Race for the Cure

Well we just got back from the race and the brunch. What a wonderful day it was. First, Texarkana had over 7300 participants for the race making them no. 1 in the nation per capita. Congratulations to them. Jenna's team was scattered throughout the field but the family mainly stuck together towards the back. Jenna did great. This was the most physical thing she's had to do since her surgery so it was very taxing. Unfortunately she had to cut the race short and cut out the last 1/2-1 mile when it looped around by the finish line. She still deserves a lot of credit for doing what she could and giving it her best effort. The pain in her back just became too much.
The awards ceremony was special. The survivors came into the area from the sides and were given a pink rose before sitting down. I had such a surge of pride to see Jenna walk in with all those courageous people. A lot of awards and trophies were given out, and Jenna got to go up and accept a trophy for the fan favorite T-shirt. After all of the ceremonies we went to Molly Beth and Bruce's house for Belgian Waffles, fruit, and possibly the best hashbrown casserole I've had. Something did eclipse the casserole though and that was the smoothies the caterers made. I could have pulled a Forrest Gump with Dr. Peppers on them but I felt self-conscious asking for another after I had 6 of them (in my defense they were in little bitty dixie cups). Noah had a big time putting his arms in the goldfish pond past his elbows in a vain attempt to catch a fish. There were a couple of other kids there for him to stare at and silently wondering why they weren't trying to catch the fish with him.
I'll post more details along with pictures as I come across them in the next few days. Jenna and I both forgot our cameras so we are relying on everyone else to send us their pics. If you took pictures of the day please email them to me at chad@macadactyl.com .

Thanks

Proud to be in T-Town

We arrived in T-town for the Race for the Cure tomorrow. Before we begin I just wanted to brag on so many people who have already made this such a special weekend. I'd like to thank everyone who signed up for Jenna's team, donated money in any way, and honestly everyone who is participating in the Race tomorrow whether you know Jenna or not. I'd like to thank Molly Beth and Dianne and I'm sure countless others for organizing Jenna's Mother Hens and Friends. The team T-shirts are awesome and everything from the coordination to the brunch in Jenna's honor tomorrow is above and beyond anything we could have imagined.

I'd also like to take a minute to truly brag on my mother. She has loved Jenna since the moment they met and it really shows today. She didn't have to love Jenna because I can truly testify she hasn't always approved of girls I was dating. With Jenna things were different. I don't know if they just had a natural click or if she saw how much I loved Jenna and she couldn't help but feel the same way. I'm not sure how it happened but I know she loves Jenna like a daughter. I'll share the proof with you. A couple of weeks ago Mom read my post on why I was traveling to Texarkana and she said it put her on a mission. She wanted to make a difference for someone else's Jenna. She started going around the chemical plant she works at and asked everyone she knew for $5. If they didn't have $5 she took whatever they could give her. She even has several donations for $3 on her page. She was persistent and she got dozens of donations. I'm so proud of her crusade because she ended up raising over $529 for the Komen Foundation to have the 2nd highest online total before the race tomorrow. I'm proud of her for so many reasons and in so many ways but I'm proud because I know she truly loves my wife and means so much to my family. Thanks Mom!

Hopefully by tomorrow night I'll be able to post some pictures and give details for everyone who can't be here.

Laundry boy

Noah loves to help out moving the laundry from the washing machine to the dryer. He'll also help you take them from the dryer to the living room. If we could just get him to fold the clothes instead of throwing the clean laundry on the dogs, we'd have it made.

We couldn't find the video camera so Jenna took a series of snapshots. I put them into a collage for you to enjoy! I know Magga would be proud.
Noah helping with laundry.

Noah in the newspaper

In case you missed it Noah's picture was in the paper last Sunday. The Ozark Komen affiliate used the picture of him holding the pink ribbon for an ad. It was an entire page of the wedding insert in the Morning News.

In case you missed it and live in Texarkana he will be in the Texarkana Gazette this weekend. The Texarkana-Komen affiliate is using the image as the cover of an insert on breast cancer awareness promoting their Race for the Cure on October 20th. All of Noah's friends and family in South Arkansas should be on the lookout for our little biscuit :)

Family Day

It wasn't quite the Carribean vacation Jenna was going to take this summer. Neither was it a weekend watching the Yankees, but it was fun nonetheless. We went to Tulsa on Saturday to get away from the VROOM-VROOM that comes from living in the middle of the city during Bikes, Blues, and BBQ. We went to the zoo to let Noah actually see a "Key!" (translation-"Monkey"). The monkey's were a disappointment. Since it was 150 degrees I guess they had air conditioning somewhere other than their island. Noah did find a new favorite animal though, the polar bear.

The polar bear exhibit is a swimming pool with outdoor and indoor viewing. The outdoor viewing area had Noah pressing his face against the glass, then when the bear would swim by he'd squeal, stomp his feet, point at the bear, and stomp his feet and squeal some more. When the bear'd go out of sight he looked at us and would go "Aaaaaaaa" (translation-"Where'd he go?"). We went inside to the indoor viewing and it took a few minutes for Noah to realize he was seeing the same bear. The indoor viewing is below the water level so you get to see the bear swimming under the water. It was very cool. Whenever the bear would come up and turn around, Noah would look back at me with these HUGE eyes like "Did you see that Daddy?" It was hilarious. The best part was when I took him over to an elevated area where the bear turns around in his swim. Noah's eye level was just about water level. The bear came up to the glass and instead of turning around he stopped and put his face up to Noah's to get a good look. Their faces were like 12 inches apart! The bear finally headed off and Noah looked back at us and started laughing. It was priceless.

Proud Woman

I experienced a very special day yesterday. Since the Koman Foundation is using Noah's precious picture as their public service announcement I was invited by Alison Levin, Executive Director of the Ozark Affiliate, as her guest to the 10th Annual Pink Ribbon Luncheon. I scooted away from work for lunch at the Holiday Inn in Springdale with an enormous group of Komen supporters. I sort of felt like a lost little puppy in a sea of beautiful pink flowers, pink table clothes, all sorts of pink suits, ties, and sweaters. Then as I entered the ballroom I was struck by two very large screens with the most moving photo of a beautiful boy holding a pink ribbon. My heart lept and I knew this was part of the new me, breast cancer survivor, with a son who is unknowingly Koman's newest advocate! Alison seated me at a table reserved for a group from Wal-Mart and introduced me to the breast cancer survivor already seated there. When the program began, Alison introduced Noah Sullivan and followed by saying his mother was diagnosed with breast cancer in June when Noah was just over a year old. I stood and waved to the crowd. Alison went on to explain that she had read some of our story on our blog. She read to the entire crowd the sentimal words of my husband and his story of playing in the Tee it Up for the Cure. You all may know the entry or feel free to scroll down to read it yourself. The entry made the most beautiful segway into the actual program in that Chad said playing in that tournament was about hope, a hope for a better tomorrow where other men did not have to hold their wives when they were suffering from this terrible disease. I was so very proud. Now I know I have a wonderful and amazing man supporting me, but now the whole world knows how very caring my husband is and how much he loves his wife. My two boys...one tiny face promising hope for women in the future and the other offering personal words of encouragement for all NWA Koman supporters. I am the luckiest woman!

Noah will be in the paper this weekend. Everyone look for him!

Hayfever-Man and Allergy-boy

Noah's snotty nose moved to his chest the other day so I took him to the doctor. Watching me sneeze up the exam room had the good Dr. ask me about my problems. She figures since he has my penicillin allergy he probably got my entire allergy profile so she put him on Singulair. What do you know? Within 2 days he's pretty much dried up. Now if I could just find my way to a doctor for some medicine of my own. I'll do it after I go get some more tissue.

What a week!

Full time work, especially during parent teacher conference week, made for a really long week! I fee good though and almost back to normal, almost. I did get my first "fill" this week at Atwood's office. It went well. I was a little nervous, but I didn't even feel the stick of the needle he used to numb me. I guess sometimes it pays not to have any sensation! They slowly "inflated" me with a syringe with a tube attached to a canister with saline. I got 50 cc in each breast. I was sore the next day in my back, but by Friday, it was all better.

Noah has had quite a bit of attention from his photo that Amber took. Amber has had two calls: one from Komen Headquarters and one from someone locally that wants to use his picture for a public service annoucement during October (Breast Cancer Awareness Month). I think the Headquarters people want to use it for a poster and make it available for local affiliates to use it for promotion purposes. Cool, huh? My friend Val had a lot to do with getting his photo in the hands of the right people. She thought it was so moving because it shows a completely different side to breast cancer and how it is affecting the younger generation. Thanks Val! We also got a copy of the magazine article from Texarkana in Four States Living magazine. The article was wonderful. Chad is going to try to scan it in so that people can look at it.

Also, my Race for the Cure team in Texarakana is HUGE. At last count, I believe 108 people have signed up. On Chad's page, many people have donated money. I feel so honored that people are doing this for me, but more importantly for other women who may have their life toppled on its head by a diagnosis of breast cancer. I have heard the Jenna's Hens and Friends T-shirt is WAY CUTE! No one is telling me exactly what it looks like though....

Chad and I went to the game last night. It was good that we won; however, I could not enjoy it the way I used to because my last image of Noah was of him crying as I drove away. He wanted to go with his Momma. Elizabeth, his babysitter, said he was fine though as soon as I was out of sight! She said he was good and they had a fun time playing, which makes me feel better. Who knows what he was really like though???

I need to run. I am going to go to church this morning. I have not been since my surgery, but feel it is time. Hope everyone had a great weekend!! Hugs and Kisses!!

Back to the working world

I went back to work this week part time. I have worked every day in the afternoons. It has been a little difficult organizing myself and getting out the door, but feels really good getting on a schedule. People in all my schools seemed genuinely happy to see me return which was heart warming. It is good to be missed. I also enjoyed checking on those children who I have worked with in previous years and see how they have adjusted to the new school year. By the end of the day, yes, I have been worn out. I do think chasing little Noah is much more exhausting than catching up with all my coworkers! They at least respond to me; Noah just ignores me and keeps running! He already demonstrates that selective hearing that many men exhibit! : ) Must be something in that Y chromosome!

We are skipping the actual game this weekend, but are going to try to tailgate some with Noah. I dressed him today in some Razorback attire and his Nike LeBron shoes his Magga brought him from Portand. I cannot get over how cute, yet a little funny, he looks in big tennis shoes on those little peanut legs!

Chad is golfing in the morning with his Cuz (Jeff Lyons) and the other Cuz (Nick Lyons). He was anxious about this because he will be leaving early in the morning before Noah gets up. This means rowdy Noah is all mine in the morning. I am glad he is going; he needs some time to whack a ball around and a break from his HIGH maintance family!

Hope all have a good weekend. Go Hogs!

Race for the cure T-shirts

I know this is last second but pretty much everyone whose signed up for Jenna's Texarkana Race for the Cure team has their 'Jenna's Mother Hens and Friends' team T-shirt ordered so I don't expect many overlooked folks out there. If you want a T-shirt then please call us or the numbers listed previously tomorrow at the latest.

You don't have to be on Jenna's team to buy a shirt and/or you don't have to buy a shirt to be on Jenna's team; these are separate. In fact, I'm telling everyone that if you can only do 1-buy a shirt or be on Jenna's team- then please sign up for Jenna's team because the T-shirt sale has been rounded up to $10 and everything left will go to Komen but the race money goes mostly towards the Komen foundation.

That sounds convoluted as I read it but I think its semi-clear :P

Prostate=clean bill of health

I finally went and got my prostate checked out. In case any of you don't know I had a kidney stone last Thanksgiving. A CT Scan at the hospital showed mineralization of my prostate gland. The doctor said not to be alarmed but I should follow up with my primary care physician and have it checked out. After Jenna was diagnosed we both knew I needed to have it checked out since we'd kind of forgotten about it. I didn't mean to put it off, I just don't have a doctor. The last time I was sick was in 2000 when I had strep throat. Anyways, with all of Jenna's stuff calming down I finally got into the urology clinic today for the checkup.

As I was typing this I had jokes forming in my head to the effect "I took it like a man" and such but now each joke is cruder than the one I before so I'll spare you all. Honestly its still too fresh on my memory to find it very funny anyways.

The moral of the story is everything is fine and he said all of my blood work looked great and .... He admonished me for not having a PCP because at 'your age you need someone to see you each year so if something goes wrong you have a doctor familiar with you.' I guess I'm officially old now :)